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How to Train your new puppy Proper Socialization Skills
Dog owners know that their dogs need proper socialization skills as it’s vital to the safety of both the dog and other people and animals with whom he comes into contact.
As to how novice dog owners view the importance of training their puppies proper socializing skills, is something that I simply can’t over emphasized.
A look at how a dog will be (behave) with and without proper socialization skills.
A dog WITH proper socialization skill…
- Is a happy dog, and a joy to be around for both humans and animals.
- Will be neither frightened of nor aggressive towards either animals or humans.
- Will take each new experience and stimulus in stride, and not become fearful or aggressive.
A dog WITHOUT proper socialization skill…
- Is a danger to other animals, people and even his own family.
- Will often bite because of fear, and such a dog can become a hazard and a liability to the family who owns it.
- Is unable to adapt to new situations. A routine matter like a trip to the vets or to a friends house can quickly stress the dog out and lead to all sorts of problems.
Socialization is best done when the puppy is as young as possible, perhaps around 12 weeks of age. Even after 12 weeks, however, it is important that your puppy continues its socialization in order to refine the all important social skills.
The socialization lessons a young puppy learns are difficult to undo, as the socialization skills the puppy learns will affect his behavior for the rest of his life.
It may be difficult to train your puppy proper socialization skills after the all important 12 week period has passed. Nonetheless, a little perservences and a few tips can’t stop you having a proper socialized dog for life.
The Do’s and Don’ts when it comes to properly socializing any puppy.
Socialization do’s
- Make each of the socialization events as pleasant and non-threatening for the puppy as possible. If a puppy’s first experience with any new experience is an unpleasant one, it will be very difficult to undo that in the puppy’s mind. In some cases, an early trauma can morph into a phobia that can last for a lifetime. It is better to take things slow and avoid having the puppy become frightened or injured.
- Try inviting your friends over to meet the new puppy. It is important to included as many different people as possible in the puppy’s circle of acquaintances, including men, women, children, adults, as well as people of many diverse ethnic backgrounds and ages.
- Also invite friendly and healthy dogs and puppies over to meet your puppy. It is important for your puppy to meet a wide variety of other animals, including cats, hamsters, rabbits and other animals he is likely to meet. It is of course important to make sure that all animals your puppy comes into contact with have received all necessary vaccinations.
- Take your puppy to many different places (if they’re permissible), including shopping centers, pet stores, parks, school playgrounds and on walks around the neighborhood. When exposing your puppy to places where they will be crowds of people and lots of diverse activity going on, it would be best to have him in your arms for a start.
- Take your puppy for frequent short rides in the car. During these rides, be sure to stop the car once in a while and let him look out the window at the world outside.
- Introduce your puppy to a variety of items that may be unfamiliar. He should be exposed to common items like bags, boxes, vacuum cleaners, umbrellas, hats, hairdresser, etc. that may be frightening to him. Allow and encourage the puppy to explore these items and see that he has nothing to fear from them.
- Get your puppy used to a variety of objects by rearranging familiar ones. Simply placing a chair upside down, or placing a table on its side, creates an object that your puppy will perceive as totally new.
- Get your puppy used to common procedures, dog grooming, like being brushed, bathed, having his nails clipped, teeth cleaned and ears cleaned. Your groomer and your veterinarian with thank you for this.
- Introduce your puppy to common things around the house, such as stairs. Also introduce the puppy to the collar and leash, so he will be comfortable with these items.
Socialization don’ts
- Do not place the puppy on the ground when strange animals are present. An attack, or even a surprise inspection, by an unknown animal could traumatize the puppy and hurt his socialization.
- Do not inadvertently reward fear based behavior. When the puppy shows fear, it is normal to try to sooth it, but this could reinforce the fear based behavior and make it worse. Since biting is often a fear based behavior, reinforcing fear can create problems with biting.
- Do not force or rush the socialization process. It is important to allow the puppy to socialize at his own pace.
- Do not try to do too much too soon. Young puppies have short attention spans, and continuing lessons after that attention span has passed will be a waste of your time and your puppy’s.
- Do not wait too long to begin. There is a short window in which to begin the socialization process. A young puppy is a blank slate, and it is important to fill that slate with positive socialization skills as early as possible.
If you do have peculiar problems training your new puppy proper socialization skills, feel free to ask me or contact me. I’ll do my best to guide you through.


Mar 29th 2008
12:27 AM
Hello, I’m doing some research on dog training. We got a blue healer/german shorthair mix today, and he’s a really good boy, but his previous owners really spent no time with him as far as behavior training. Aaand, we got him home only to find out he won’t stop barking and trying to get at the cats unless we remove the cats. We have let the dog in most of the evening to learn his home, and have a nice place for him in the back. Hoping that them seeing enough of eachother in safe distances will get them used to eachother. Is there any hope in that???
Mar 30th 2008
9:18 PM
Hi Tania,
Of course, there is hope but you must be prepared to do some trainings. I’ve written a couple of articles on cats and dogs relationship training. You may want to try the tips I suggested.
Which One Get Along Better: Puppy and Kitten or Cat and Dog? and How To Properly Train A New Pup or Dog To Your Cat
They will get used to each other, eventually, even with minimum training. However it may take a really long while. Whatever the situation, just be patient and continue with the training.
Good Luck!